They smile gently.
They speak in soft tones.
They quote scripture and whisper peace.
But when you scream, they flinch.
Not at the abuse, but at your voice.
They’re not the ones who raised their fists.
They’re the ones who told you not to make it a big deal.

⚠️ “They’re always ‘nice,’ but never present.”

Nice isn’t the same as safe.
Nice isn’t the same as kind.
Nice can be a costume — worn by those who fear discomfort more than they love truth.
They won’t hold your pain.
They’ll spiritualize it.
They’ll say, “Everything happens for a reason.”
Or, “Let’s not be negative.”
Or, “God will take care of it.”
But what they’re really saying is:
“Don’t make me feel this with you.”

🔍 How to Spot an Enabler

An enabler is not always malicious.
But they are always misaligned.
They serve the abuser’s comfort more than your healing.
Here’s how they reveal themselves:
  1. They downplay abuse while calling themselves “balanced.”
  2. They protect the abuser more than they comfort the wounded.
  3. They stay “neutral” in situations where neutrality is betrayal.
  4. They’re uncomfortable with confrontation — but love appearing “wise.”
  5. They fear your anger more than the abuser’s violence.
  6. They’ll cry when you speak your truth — to make you feel like the aggressor.
  7. They call your trauma healing “overreacting.”
“They are not wolves in sheep’s clothing.
They are the shepherd who locks the gate after the wolf walks in.

⚔️ The Real Villain Isn’t Always Loud

Sometimes the greatest harm isn’t done by those who strike.
It’s done by those who silence.
  • With pious tones.
  • With family honor.
  • With “God says forgive.”
  • With “This is our culture.”
  • With “Just stay quiet, we don’t want conflict.”
But peace born from silence is not peace.
It is spiritual captivity.

🧠 The Enabler Holds the Spell

Enablers are the glue that keeps karmic cycles repeating.
They are the reason:
  • Victims stay quiet
  • Abusers keep abusing
  • Generational pain keeps surviving
To break the cycle:
  • You must awaken.
  • To awaken, you must name them.
  • To name them, you must stop fearing the loss of love that was never real.
You can’t hold light if you’re still loyal to the one who kept you caged.
You can’t ascend until you burn the false harmony.

🐉 This Is Your Truth Rising

Let it shake the ground.
Let it crack the illusions.
Let it roar.
No more shrinking to keep others comfortable.
No more silence to be seen as “good.”
No more mistaking manipulation for spirituality.
This is not rebellion.
This is liberation.
Let the truth be louder than their shame.
Let your healing be more sacred than their peacekeeping.
Let your voice rise — not to destroy, but to finally breathe.

🕯️ To anyone who has been gaslit, spiritualized, or silenced in the name of love — you are not alone. You are not overreacting. And you are not wrong for demanding truth, safety, and justice.
This is your truth.
Let it rise.
Let it roar.
Let it reclaim you.

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Meet Prakash Chegu

 

 Name: Prakash Chegu
Background: Prakash Chegu is a highly experienced Kundalini Yoga teacher with over four decades of dedicated practice and two decades of teaching in the field. Born and raised in a deeply spiritual family in a small town in Southern India, the spiritual practice at the core of the life-style is ingrained in all aspects of life. Prakash's journey into Kundalini Yoga began at a very young age. Growing up in a family deeply rooted in yogic practices viz., Kriyas, Mantras, and Meditation, he developed a profound connection with the ancient practice.
 
Education and Training: Prakash pursued a rigorous and traditional education in yoga, alongside a strong engineering and technology, that nurtured his insatiable curiosity into everything life has to offer including Yogic Philosophy from the ancient scriptures, Vedas, and Upanishads. He further honed his skills by studying under renowned Kundalini Yoga masters across the world and undertaking advanced training in Kundalini Yoga therapy, meditation, and an ancient yogic healing modality called Sat Nam Rasayan.
 
Teaching Style: Prakash's teaching style is deeply rooted in authenticity and spirituality. He believes in the transformative power of Kundalini Yoga and seeks to share its immense benefits with his students. His classes are dynamic, inspiring as well as harmonious, and a blend of traditional techniques and modern understanding, making the practice accessible to people from all walks of life.
 
Prakash is known for his:
  1. Compassion: He creates a nurturing and inclusive environment where students feel supported in their personal journeys. Prakash understands that everyone's path is unique and offers individualized guidance to help students reach their full potential.
  2. Expertise: With his extensive knowledge of life-time of learning including Kundalini Yoga, Prakash can guide students through even the most complex kriyas and meditations. His in-depth understanding of the bodies, Ayurveda, chakras, and Vedic astrology allows him to facilitate profound experiences of awakening and self-realization.
  3. Holistic Approach: Prakash emphasizes the integration of mind, body, and spirit in his teachings. He incorporates pranayama, mantra chanting, and meditation to help his students achieve a state of balance and harmony.
  4. Innovation: While deeply rooted in tradition, Prakash is open to weaving modern techniques and scientific insights related to yoga and energy work. He continually deepens his teaching methods by integrating scientific research that keeps increasingly validating ancient technologies to provide his students with a well-rounded and relevant experience.
Value Generation: Prakash Chegu is not just a yoga teacher; He's a spiritual alchemist, a guide who empowers his students to unlock their full potential. His immense domain experience and deep spiritual connection allow him to:
  • Help individuals release physical and emotional blockages, enabling them to experience greater vitality and emotional well-being.
  • Assist students in tapping into their inner wisdom and intuition, fostering personal growth and self-awareness.
  • Guide individuals on a journey of self-discovery, helping them connect with their purpose and passion.
  • Foster a sense of community and support among her students, creating a network of like-minded individuals dedicated to personal growth and spiritual evolution.
 
Additionally, Prakash Chegu is a successful entrepreneur, and Engineer from a reputed university that brings depth and adequate practical knowledge of Yogic Philosophy in technology and life in general.
 
Prakash Chegu's classes are sought after by those who seek not only physical health but also spiritual transformation. His dedication to Kundalini Yoga and his ability to generate immense value in the lives of the students make him a respected figure in the world of yoga and holistic wellness.
 

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