• Jul 20, 2025 06:29 PM Central
  • Prakash Chegu
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Have you ever wondered why some relationships survive life's storms while others crumble at the first sign of turbulence? The answer might surprise you—and it has everything to do with how we define love itself.

Love Is Not What We Think It Is

Love is not a fleeting spark that dances with the wind of emotion.
It is not a fire that only burns when the nights are warm and easy.
Love is not something you stumble into—it is something you stand for.
It is not a feeling... but oh, how beautifully it shapes the way we feel.
When we mistake love for mere emotion, we set ourselves up for disappointment. Feelings are temporary visitors—they come and go like weather patterns. But true love? True love is the climate of your relationship. It's the steady foundation that remains when the emotional storms pass.

The Quiet Strength That Heals

Love is a vow whispered not just in ceremonies, but in everyday silences.
It's choosing the same soul even on days when emotions betray you.
It's the unseen hand that reaches through disappointment and still says, I'm here.
This is where love's healing power begins.
In a world that celebrates the dramatic, love does its most profound work in the quiet moments. It's holding onto someone when it would be easier to walk away. It's the medicine that doesn't come in a bottle—it comes in presence, in showing up, in refusing to abandon ship when the waters get rough.
Love is not loud.
It's quiet forgiveness after a hard word.
It's the steady hand during shaky seasons.
It is the pause before reacting, the breath before breaking, the peace in the middle of the storm.

Love Doesn't Keep Score—And That Changes Everything

Love is not keeping score.
It doesn't catalog mistakes or stack offenses.
It learns to forget what ego remembers, and to remember what hearts often forget: we're in this together.
Here's the radical truth: the moment we stop keeping score is the moment healing can truly begin. Relationships aren't competitions—they're collaborations. When we release the need to be right, to win, to prove our point, we create space for something miraculous: genuine restoration.

The Beautiful Imperfection of Real Love

Love is not perfect.
It falters.
It aches.
But it always returns.
It always tries again.
This might be love's greatest healing power—its refusal to give up. Real love doesn't demand perfection; it offers grace. It doesn't require you to have it all together; it walks with you as you figure it out.
Because real love is not made of convenience—it is made of courage.
The courage to stay when leaving feels easier. The courage to forgive when resentment feels justified. The courage to hope when despair whispers that it's over.

What Love Actually Is (And Why It Matters)

Love is not sex—though deep love, when safe and cherished, becomes a sacred fire.
It is not possession—it is presence.
It is not passion alone—it is perseverance.
Love grows when we plant trust, water it with kindness, and protect it with truth.
Think of love as a garden rather than a lightning strike. Lightning is spectacular but brief. Gardens require tending, patience, and faith that something beautiful is growing even when you can't see it yet.

The Ocean Beneath the Waves

Feelings will rise and fall like tides.
But real love is the ocean beneath—steady, infinite, undying.
True love never fails.
When we understand this distinction, everything changes. We stop being at the mercy of our emotions and start building something lasting. We stop looking for someone to complete us and start choosing to complement each other. We stop waiting to "fall in love" and start deciding to stand in love.

The Choice That Changes Everything

Because real love is not a feeling.
It is a decision.
A discipline.
A destiny.
Every morning, you wake up and choose love again. Not because it's easy, but because it's worth it. Not because you feel like it, but because you've decided that this person, this relationship, this commitment matters more than your momentary feelings.
This is love's ultimate healing power: it transforms us from passive recipients of emotion into active architects of connection.

Your Turn: What Does Love Look Like in Your Life?

I'd love to hear from you. Have you experienced love as a choice rather than just a feeling? What does "standing in love" look like in your relationships—romantic or otherwise?
Share your story in the comments below. Your experience might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.
And if this resonated with you, share it with someone who might need this reminder that real love—the kind that heals, sustains, and transforms—is always within reach. It's not about finding the perfect person; it's about choosing to love imperfectly but persistently.
Because in the end, the love that heals us isn't the love that feels easy—it's the love that chooses to stay.
What's your definition of real love? Let's start a conversation that matters. ↓





 
 
 

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