We live in a world that moves fast—so fast, that if you’re not “healed,” “high-vibe,” or “productive,” you start to believe there’s something wrong with you.
But pause for a moment. Breathe.
You are not broken.
You are becoming.
You are becoming.
Becoming is not clean, convenient, or Instagram-pretty.
It’s messy. It’s sacred. It’s full of pauses, relapses, remembering and forgetting.
It’s messy. It’s sacred. It’s full of pauses, relapses, remembering and forgetting.
Healing is not a straight line—it’s a spiral.
Growth doesn’t always look like light. Sometimes it looks like silence, fatigue, grief, and letting go of everything you once clung to.
Growth doesn’t always look like light. Sometimes it looks like silence, fatigue, grief, and letting go of everything you once clung to.
But none of that means you are failing.
It means you’re evolving.
It means you’re evolving.
The Myth of Brokenness
There’s a voice—internal or inherited—that whispers:
“If I were stronger, I wouldn’t feel this way.”
“If I had it together, I wouldn’t still be struggling.”
“Something in me must be wrong.”
But here’s the truth: You are not meant to be a finished product.
You are a living, breathing becoming.
You are a living, breathing becoming.
The cracked places you carry aren’t evidence of your failure.
They are portals—to deeper compassion, realignment, and divine insight.
They are portals—to deeper compassion, realignment, and divine insight.
Becoming Requires Shedding
Sometimes becoming looks like:
- Leaving relationships you once begged to stay in.
- Saying no when your nervous system still flinches with guilt.
- Grieving people, identities, or dreams that no longer fit your soul.
- Feeling lost while your old self dissolves and your new self is still taking shape.
That’s not being broken.
That’s alchemy.
That’s alchemy.
It’s the death of illusion so that truth can be born.
You Are Allowed to Be In Process
You don’t have to rush to clarity.
You don’t need to force answers.
You are allowed to take your time, to exist in the in-between, to cry when needed and rise when ready.
You don’t need to force answers.
You are allowed to take your time, to exist in the in-between, to cry when needed and rise when ready.
Even your confusion has wisdom.
Even your sadness is sacred.
Even your sadness is sacred.
You are not here to perform perfection.
You are here to live fully—and that includes every raw, unfiltered part of the journey.
You are here to live fully—and that includes every raw, unfiltered part of the journey.
What If...
What if nothing was wrong with you?
What if your pain is evidence of your courage to feel?
What if this stretch, this ache, this discomfort is proof you’re expanding?
What if your pain is evidence of your courage to feel?
What if this stretch, this ache, this discomfort is proof you’re expanding?
Because you are.
You’re becoming someone who sees clearer, loves deeper, trusts more, and fears less.
And while you may not fully recognize yourself right now—that’s okay.
Your future self is cheering you on.
And while you may not fully recognize yourself right now—that’s okay.
Your future self is cheering you on.
So no, dear one, you are not broken.
You are shedding. Rising.
You are becoming.
You are shedding. Rising.
You are becoming.
With love,
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