1. We Want Communication, But Not Comprehension

• We expect to be heard but don’t want to hear.
• We want validation, not understanding.
• We talk, we post, we text—but do we listen with the intention of resolving and growing?

2. Love Without Sacrifice: A Selfish Approach

• We want loyalty without commitment.
• We want devotion without service.
• We see compromise as oppression and effort as a burden.

3. We Expect Perfection & Avoid Reality

• We want someone young but with the wisdom and wealth of our parents.
• We want a great partner, but the moment we see their flaws, we run.
• We expect perfection but are unwilling to build with someone imperfect.

4. We Are Fickle & Impatient

• One argument? We leave.
• A rough phase? We ghost.
• A partner needs time to grow? We don’t have the patience.

5. We Demonize Masculinity & Femininity

• We tell men to be soft and vulnerable—then criticize them for being weak.
• We tell women to be strong and independent—then criticize them for being too dominant.

6. Ego Kills Love

• We tell ourselves, “Don’t settle for less.” But we all have "less" in us—love only works when we acknowledge our flaws.
• We want a partner who tolerates us but are unwilling to tolerate them.
• We measure love in ratios (50/50) instead of pouring ourselves into it fully.

7. Social Media Ruins Real Love

• We seek validation online instead of intimacy offline.
• We are more worried about how our relationship looks than how it feels.
• We chase the illusion of perfect love instead of working on the love we have.

8. We Lack Guidance from Those Who Have Lasting Love

• The older generations had less knowledge but built stronger marriages.
• We have more knowledge but create weaker relationships.

9. Bring Back Reality: The Final Truth